Make A Good Impression

How Can You Make a Good Impression?

Previously we talked about the red flags you should watch for when you’re out on a date. Now let’s talk about how you can make a good first impression…

First off, let me say this: you’re likely to be a little nervous, so you may fumble here and there. But remember that your date is likely just as nervous as you are. You’re not in this boat alone! Indeed, it’s human nature to think more about ourselves than about other people. So while you are worried if your hair looks just right, your date is probably thinking the same thing about himself or herself.

That said, relax (easier said than done, right?) – and be yourself! As touched on earlier, don’t try to impress someone by being something that you’re not. Be yourself so that the person gets to know the real you. That way if you two hit it off, you can be confident that he or she enjoys being with the person you really are.

Nonetheless, that doesn’t mean you should relax as if you were spending a Saturday morning at home. In other words, dress appropriately. Don’t wear sweats and a t-shirt. If you normally wear jeans and a t-shirt, and you’re going someplace casual, that’s fine to wear what you normally wear. But don’t arrive at your date looking like you just finished playing basketball.

To make a good first impression, be sure that you are courteous and well-mannered. Remember all those things your mother taught you about saying “please” and “thank you?” Yes, that’s right, you should use words like this generously.

All the other rules of etiquette apply, such as saying “excuse me,” not talking with your mouth full, showing up on time, etc. Also, don’t complain or show a bad attitude. For example, if the food isn’t good or the wait staff is slow, just be quiet about it – especially if your date is the one who chose this place. Not only is it not a good thing to have a negative attitude on a first date (or ever, for that matter), you can risk hurting your date’s feelings if he or she is the one who suggested the place or thing that you’re now complaining about.